Jesus, kids with special needs, and their parents were treated compassionately by Jesus. What Jesus said to their has value for our families today. In part 3 of Mark Arnold’s series about Jesus, kids with special needs, he examines lessons we can learn from the story of Jesus bringing Jairus’ daughter back to life.

What Happened in the Story

The story of Jarius and his daughter is recorded in Matthew 9, Mark 5, and Luke 8. Jarius is a synagogue leader who begs Jesus to help his daughter who is dying. Jesus agrees to come but is interrupted on the way by the woman who had a condition that made her bleed. Members of Jairus’ household then arrive and say the girl is dead. Jesus continues on his way to Jarius’ house and finds a commotion of grieving people. Jesus says the girl is not dead, but sleeping. Everyone other than the girl’s parents and his disciples laugh at him. Jesus takes the parents and three disciples into the girl’s room. He commands her to get up, and to the astonishment of everyone and the delight of her parents, she does!

How the Parents Reacted

Begging and pleading: The father is a synagogue leader, a man of authority. Yet he humbles himself by kneeling before Jesus and begging him to help his daughter.

Faithful, believing: Jarius believes that Jesus can save his daughter, healing her by putting his hands on her.

Devastated: The death of his daughter must have been a hammer blow to her father. He surely was filled with grief. He must have questioned whether the outcome would have been different if Jesus had gone straight to his home.

Amazed: Jesus isn’t put off by this news or the people who laughed at him. Instead, he raised the girl from the dead. Her parents must have been filled with wonder and amazement!

What We Can Learn from Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and their Parents

This account should lead us to ask questions of ourselves. Can our pride get in the way of bringing our children into God’s presence? Do we humble ourselves as the synagogue leader did? Do we have faith, truly believing that God will hear and respond to our prayers? How do we behave when God doesn’t respond to our prayers as expected? Are we astonished?

God might not always give the answer we want. Jairus certainly didn’t initially, but he kept believing and trusting, even when others were mocking Jesus.

To read more of this series, check out the links below:

Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and Their Parents, Part 1

Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and Their Parents, Part 2

Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and Their Parents, Part 3

Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and Their Parents, Part 4

Jesus, Kids with Special Needs, and Their Parents, Part 5

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