6 Ways to Ease Clinic Visits for Kids with Special Needs
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Clinic visits can be tough on kids. When the kids with special needs have painful and scary memories of medical professional and procedures, a trip can be especially difficult. A post by Andi, who blogs about life with her daughter with cerebral palsy and her son with Down syndrome at Bringing in the Sunshine, offers tips to reduce the trauma and maximize clinic visits.
6 Ways to Ease Clinic Visits
- Take another adult. Andi says the presence of another adult is crucial, though that person doesn’t have to be your spouse. Sometimes, someone with a little more distance thinks of questions a person close to the situation might overlook.
- Take a notebook and pen. Because taking pen and paper notes is quicker than trusting your memory and going home to type notes on the computer.
- Take video. Not video while you are there, but video of your child that documents behavior, physical regression, or whatever concerns you want to discuss with the doctor.
- Take photos. For reasons similar to those for taking video. Pictures taken from several different angles can give doctors a more complete idea of what’s happening with your child.
- Let your child talk and answer questions as much as possible. Parents who are used to speaking on behalf of very young children have to learn to let their children speak for themselves. Sometimes kids will reveal something to the doctor that they haven’t mentioned to parents.
- Take snacks. Because clinic visits, especially to teaching hospitals, can drag on and on and on.
Andi’s post fleshes out each item in the list more completely, so check out her post, Six Tips for Maximizing a Specialty Pediatric Clinic Visit. I hope you have time to camp out at her site for a while because she has some great stuff there.
Your Clinic Visit Tips?
Does your child with special needs have frequent clinic visits? What tips make the visits go smoothly and reduce stress for your child? Leave your ideas in the comment box.
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By Jolene
Jolene Philo is the author of the Different Dream series for parents of kids with special needs. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She’s also the creator and host of the Different Dream website. Sharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and at Amazon.
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Stephanie,
I’m so sorry to hear your daughter gets so stressed. That has to be hard on parent and child. I can’t imagine how difficult those days must be.
Jolene
My daughter sees the pediatrician four times a year for check ups. I dread them each time. She’s so stressed that there is nothing I haven’t tried that works to date. I just hope they’re quick and we get out of there as soon as we can.
Great tips, Andi! Two other suggestions: (1) Bring something for you and your child to do together (books, iPad, activity books, etc.). The waiting time can go on and on. (2) I have a one page summary of all of my daughter’s medical information. It has all of her diagnosis, medications (and dosages), allergies, and physicians’ information (name, clinic, address, phone, and date of last visit) plus our pharmacy’s info. It also has all major procedures (dates and results). This makes filling out those endless forms SO much easier!