Fostering Communication and Connection Between Caregiving Parents

by Jan 7, 2021Books and Resources, The 5 Love Languages® for Special Needs Families0 comments

Fostering communication and connection between caregiving parents gets a little easier with these love language ideas.

Fostering communication and connection is crucial for parents of kids with special needs and disabilities. Several couples interviewed for Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities said they had to learn to tend to their relationship with one another first in order to meet their kids’ needs effectively.

As parents raising kids who require ongoing care, our attention and resources frequently go to our children first. Sometimes that can’t be helped. But there’s a tendency, as time goes on, to make a habit of paying attention to our kids before our spouses. According to the parents interviewed for Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families it doesn’t have to be that way. They said that the basic love language concepts are tools for fostering communication and connection for these 3 reasons:

  1. The love languages empower couples to make marriage a top priority.
  2. The love languages enhance communicate even in the thick of caregiving.
  3. The love languages make couples more intentional and observant.

To use the love languages, couples first need to learn one another’s love language. The easiest way to do so is by taking the free online quiz at 5lovelanguages.com. Once you know each other’s love language, you can start to speak it using ideas from Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families that are tailored for fostering communication and connection between caregiving parents. Here are a few to get you started.

Words of Affirmation. Compliment appearance, write and mail an old-fashioned letter, send encouraging texts or emails throughout the day.
Quality Time. Schedule coffee dates on the deck or by the fireplace, read a book out loud together, play a silly board game.
Gifts. Buy a single slice of dessert to share after the kids are in bed, buy small items at the dollar store, give a gift card to a favorite coffee shop.
Acts of Service. Gas up the car, get up early and pack your spouse’s lunch, grocery shop.
Physical Touch. Kiss and hug before going to work, exercise together, hold hands while you pray.

For more ideas like these, check out the book Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families. For ideas about how use the love languages with your kids who have disabilities and special needs, come back in February for the next post in this series.

Other articles in this series:

The Love Languages and Special Needs Families: A Good Combination

Basic Love Language Concepts to Ease Stress and Increase Joy in Caregiving Families

Threats to Caregiving Marriages and How To Fight Them 

Love Is a Child’s First Language

Determining the Love Language of a Child with Special Needs or a Disability 

Ways to Speak Words of Affirmation and Quality Time to Kids with Special Needs

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By Jolene

Jolene Philo is the author of the Different Dream series for parents of kids with special needs. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She’s also the creator and host of the Different Dream websiteSharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and at Amazon.

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Jolene Philo is a published author, speaker, wife, and mother of a son with special needs.

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