5 Ways to Move Beyond Overwhelmed
Parenting kid with special needs can be overwhelming.
Stressful.
Frustrating.
Enough to give a person high blood pressure.
We all know that. What we don’t always know is how to cope with the demands of care giving.
Resources for When You Feel Overwhelmed
Mary Mazzoni blogs about parenting adult children with special needs at Life Beyond IEPs. Her blog is full of practical tools and tips. Many of them are applicable for young children with special needs, too. Even if your child is still quite young, Mazzoni’s blog is a wonderful place to go when you’re overwhelmed at the though of your child as a young adult. Looking through the resources she offers and reading her advice can have a very calming effect on worried parents.
5 Ways to Move Beyond Overwhelmed
In a recent post, Mazzoni suggested these 5 strategies for moving beyond overwhelmed:
- Adjust your own oxygen mask. Your first priority is to build wellness into your regular routines—and your child’s.
- Begin with the end in mind. Having a vision for the future clarifies our perspective and helps us set clear priorities.
- Grow a support network. You can’t go it alone. No one can. Your child needs a network of relationships—and so do you.
- Consume information wisely. Discern what information is truly helpful.
- Start to move. A small step in the right direction creates energy for the next step.
How Do You Lower Your Blood Pressure?
Now that you’ve seen Mazzoni’s suggestions, what would you add to the list? Which of them works for you? How have you learned to lower your blood pressure while raising a child with special needs?
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By Jolene
Jolene Philo is the author of several books for the caregiving community. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. Sharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and Amazon. See Jane Sing!, the second book in the West River cozy mystery series, which features characters affected by disability, was released in November of 2022.
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